Your relationships determine the quality of your life
10 Love Tips by Jenny Verano
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #1: Love and warmth
This emotion will help you to get rid of negative thoughts. Develop the behavior of leaving people feeling love and warmth coming from you. To create any new behavior you need to put yourself in the emotional state where this behavior becomes automatic. You need to feel love and warmth first.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #2:- Appreciation and gratitude
When you feel appreciative you can’t feel sad or resentful.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #3: Curiosity
Make sure you are interested and inquisitive in your interactions with other people. Be present. Focus on them and be more aware of their feelings. Ask good questions.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #4: Excitement and passion
Make a conscious decision to feel this emotion every day.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #5: Determination
You must be able to follow through on your word in order to achieve anything and don’t give up trying.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #6: Flexibility
Be flexible enough to extend your boundaries, give yourself enough time and change the plan if it is not working. You can even change your goal.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #7: Confidence
Choose this emotion over fear. Often we are fearful about things that we imagine and feel bad in advance but they never come to happen. Have faith, have trust and choose to be confident in a situation. You must likely are confident doing the laces on your shoes. Why? Because you have done it too many times. Practice gives you confidence.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #8: Cheerfulness
There’s a difference between being happy and being cheerful. Happiness is an internal emotion. You’re cheerful when you communicate that happiness to your face and the people around you feel good and happy to be with you. It improves your self-esteem, makes life more fun, causes people to respond to you and the feelings of fear, anger, frustration, disappointment, inadequacy, guilt and depression will seem to disappear. Cultivate this emotion and you won’t have to do any other action in order to get attention.
Source: The Five Love Languages on YouTube
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #9: Health and energy
When you are vibrant and healthy you have the strength and the energy to do more and bad things bounce of you because you feel good. You can handle situations in a better way because your mind only needs to focus on that particular thing. Practice the things you know that make you feel energetic and vibrant on a regular basis so you can have better health.
Jenny Verano’s Love Tips #10: Sense of contribution
If every day you can feel that what you do adds something more than just to your own life but to others as well, life takes on a new deeper meaning. We all have a need to feel like our lives matter and because we have lived other people’s lives are better. We all want to leave our mark and you can do that by smiling at someone you don’t know or by appreciating someone who needs it or by giving a genuine compliment.
You can notice how you have contributed already and appreciate the little things you do for other people that make you feel good about yourself so you want to do more. It’s like a cycle. You do something for someone that makes you feel good so you want to do it again until you become addicted. Can you imagine a world where people develop an addiction to making other people feel good?